ahhhh, soooo good to have you back blogging, really, !!!! i came to your blog several times just to see whether there was sth new and i am so happy to hear your news. funny, eh, i don t even get why i actually do think it is interesting. haha.

okay, thanks for writing the stuff about GUYS.
while i was reading it i suddenly realized that it might be not a white black green carree thing but simply a matter of narrow minds. here in berlin the arabic lookalikes, the turks and africans usually get at WHITE women in exact the same manner which you just decribed about the white men.

maybe it is that the bondaries or gaps between races are still so huge in reality (despite all the talking of mulitculturism and stuff) that the males of the one side usually do not have access to the women of the other side and therefore dare to treat them like shit. no turkish guy would treat a turkish women like these icky bastards who really just want to put their little penis inside whatever hole they can find in a european white woman... you get what i am saying it is so fucking disgusting.

out of curiosity i took last year a erotic telephone line job (which i quit after one week because i realized that it ain t my thing at all) and there this mentality is very explicit to be encountered: the guys, because their threshold goes down BECAUSE of the distance they feel (which might be as well the case with distances in terms of nationalities or races) just loose all respect and let their animal get right at you.they think they can get away with that....(and we really should show them that this is not the case!)

as you know i am kind of attracted to afro whatever lookalikes which always kind of disturbed me because i would like to think of myself as a independent, person loving (yeah, i want an interesting cool individual rather than a stereotype of course!) piranha. but i kind of accepted that inclination by now just as something that is there about my character that conditioned me that way. but i am looking for individuals and like with David now I was lucky (or unlucky) enough to find my personal inclination AND my need for a good individual in personal union in one guy.


anyways. it is too sad that many africans i know here, for example, really can t see the person behind me but only the woman. the potential useful white european woman.

i think we all dont want to be treated like that. and i think it is because the white european culture is still somewhat in its(dying) phase of momentum that black women probably feel even more like that than the average white woman. it s a mess and we need a lot of conscience effort to work on that.

what i always heavily regret is when i encounter the type of girls you described, who is selling herself as a stereotype. and when i encounter people whose only answer to racism and hardship they encounter is counterracism and revenge. i don t think that this is the right way. i think of nelson mandela (who has his flaws too, but hell ya, whateva!!!!) and his wife and the different roads they took and i would go for his way. although i have some sort of understanding for hers.....

fucking until we all have the same colour? nah. boring. i really LIKE the differences and it is perfectly normal, i think, when people want to FEEL your hair because they have never felt it before. we need to get to know what we don t know. but with respect and love. dontcha think so....

ok enough blablabbing here. love your bloggerid very much coffey!!!!!!!!!!

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as for the videos....it s not only bad for black women and how you are perceived in the public BECAUSE of that, but it s also bad for young little whiteys who think they have to be like those chicks and they never can be. and isn t it strange that the black women in the videos almost always are light skinned? it s setting up a new ideal (hell i wish you could see those chicks here who go to the solarium to get tanned too often!) that will, again, confine women in their individuality.
but its happening to guys too....just with different measures. but it s fucked up anyways. fuck

its tragic. it really is

first off, there have been stereotypes of black women for centuries. it is not only perpetuated in the U.S. but abroad as well (arabs are the worst)

but instead of trying to fix these problems, we actually REINFORCE these stereotypes.

NO ONE will respect our women until we RESPECT and PROTECT them ourselves...

i will post something on this very soon

Ms World:
It's ridiculous. When people are drunk, they say and do things they don't have the courage or guts to do sober.

Piranha:
Thank you so much for the warm welcome back! I love when you offer your feedback on my blog.
Unfortunately, women in general can't cut a break... but black women have been hyper-sexualized for decades. If you look at the social roles of Black women and White women, comparatively, Black women tend to be catergorized in two major categories... Mammy or Harlot. Now it seems that those categories have been updated to Angry and Big Assed Hoochie. Read "Arn't I a Woman: Female Slaves in the Plantation South" by Deborah Gray White as one source of reference... there are far better ones.
Unfortunately, Black men with clout perpetuate these stereotypes via the rap videos and such. yadda yadda yadda.
Anyway, maybe I should write a blog entry on this as well
Bro. Omi... You are so right!
Thanks for the feedback!